Some of APRIL VACA

Vacation for us was trying to get Kailyn through her Birthday party without being ill and then dealing with illness the rest of the time. At least one of my three children have been sick each day since April 7. That is fifteen days if you didn't feel like counting. Kailyn was throwing out low blood sugars and ketones for three day straight, Keira is not sleeping and seizures reared their ugly head again.  I am getting sick of it. No pun intended. But, thanks to the B-day party, Art Camp and Grammie and Grandpa being able to entertain the kids I think they had a pretty decent time. Sam did get out with friends once, but no friends or cousins over. It did not help that they think it is summer. This wacky weather makes them think we can go to the beach and actually swim in the water ;)  Ouch! Here are a few pictures of them learning to do their Ripsticks. Huge hit that they got for Christmas. Sam is so proud that it says for 8 years old and up and he can do it. :)  They started out going around the island in the kitchen and progressed to making it outside in Grammie and Grandpa's driveway. I am hopeful that summer vacation will be much better and I will be able to leave the house with them much more often.

 I LOVE the tongue!! He always does it when he is concentrating doing something physical. lol

I CAN DO IT!!

The only time Keira has gotten out is to the Doctors and to get the kids at camp. This is the only picture I have of her during the week. We did go outside, but not in public. What a nasty bug they got!! 

Things I never thought I would do as a parent.

1. Do an emergency G-tube replacement when my 2 year old (who has Epilepsy/Autism) decides it would be fun to pull it out. She did this tonight. I managed to shove replace the new tube back into her stomach averting an ER visit and/or new surgery. Some parents apparently can't stomach this. I can stomach doing it myself way more than going into the ER for yet another visit.

2. Hear my husband say: "Well, I guess it's good that she is exploring more things". Trying to look on the bright side of the incident. He was not the one that had to frantically try and put it in. He did help hold her down and asked what we were going to do about him going to work if I had to bring her into the ER.

3. Watch my almost 10 year old excitedly get dressed at the prospect of going to the ER. She kept saying to me that I could not get the tube in. She was bummed when I managed to replace the tube because she was ready to go. I was not going to let her come anyway.

4. Have to get my child's blood drawn to check medication levels. I get to go do this tomorrow. Her little hand has started to shake. A side effect of the seizure medication. She has had more blood drawn than any 2 year old that I personally know.

5. Have grown men run around my house 2.5 hours a day, 4 days a week, to play and teach her using ABA therapy. I appreciate it and know it works, but never thought that my parenting her would not be enough to help her learn to talk.

6. Replacing a pulled out G-tube. She pulled the balloon through her stomach (ack!!)
This is not Keira, but it looks exactly like hers.

I had to push the stem through the hole into her stomach. Then, using one of the external support openings, I put 5ml of water into it to blow up the balloon. Hopefully, this next one will stay put. This was actually the second time I have done this. The first one was because it had been in for a while and it was time for it to be changed.

7. Wonder why I did not become a MD or a Nurse. I actually never ever had any thoughts of doing this. It grossed me out thinking about it. But now, I have no aversion to needles, blood, or gastric juices etc... I was adamant that I was going to be a teacher and have my degree in that. But man, I have done more than my fair share of nursing/researching and diagnosing since becoming a parent.

8. Clean up bunny poop and chase after a dog. I am not an animal lover, but the rest of my family is so I lose by default. ;)

Baselines are done and ABA has officially started!

Excuse my horrible video, but she moves around A LOT! I am really just bad at videoing. She is supposed to be showing me her mouth by sticking out her tongue and she does! Her reinforcer is praise and tickles. They are working on belly too. This is one of tons and tons and tons of programs they work on with her for 10 hours a week until she turns 3. At that point she will go to the developmental preschool program.

She is also really digging the Apps on my phone and the Ipad. The Ipad is easier for her to use. There are so many programs out there for her to try. Her favorite is Shape Galaxy and Adam's Game. I am working on trying to make a "Keira's Game" so all of the people and objects are her own. After she touches three of the right objects the last object goes across the screen in various sizes, while making music.

 

Early Intervention is the key. We have 3.5 years to work on her talking and learning in order to get her ready for Kindergarten. Hopefully, the seizure monsters don't get in the way!! She is on Depokote and supplemental G-tube feeding and that seems to keep them at bay. We go to see yet another Epileptimologist in April to see if we can get more info on what is going on.

On a side note, I will have a Kindergartener, 5th grader and 8th grader then. (ACK!!)

Good Moms have sticky floors. A little of everything.

Sam    

     I really LOVE how Sam says some things the wrong way or labels objects incorrectly. Yeah, I probably should always correct, but once he gets it in his head it is hard to retrain him. For instance, he keeps calling R2D2, Wall-E. He won't back down. He calls Kailyn, "Kaiyn" and his reading teacher, "The work lady". He has a hard time remembering names. So, I try, but figure at some point he will get it. Until then, I will sit back and quietly chuckle. Also, note to self: I can't do first grade homework. I tried to help him last night and we got a horrible grade!! Here is a picture of my cutie when he was two! He was such a monkey and always climbing. Just like Keira now.

Someone was talking to Keira about getting a haircut.

1. She had no idea what they are talking about.

2. Why in the heck would I get her a haircut? They acted all shocked she has never had her hair cut. Why would I?

She is totally posing in this photo ;)

Here is a picture of my Dad holding Keira right after she was born. I am putting it here so I can find it for her ABA people identification program. I actually really love it though. It's perfection in my opinion.

My philosophy in life has changed a bit in the last few years. I used to sweat the small stuff. Then I was stuck. I did not know where to go. I could not live the life that I expected. This picture sum's up how I felt. I find this picture amusing! I have found my way if you were wondering ;)

This is my new philosophy after Autism, Type 1 Diabetes, Epilepsy, G-tube feeding and a blood clotting disorder  (that resulted in two pulmonary embolism's) entered my life. Yup, my house is way messier than I ever expected, but I don't care. It's clean, just messy a ton.

And just so a pretty picture of Kailyn is not left out: At camp last summer almost 3 years after her Type 1 Diabetes diagnosis.

Autism, Epilepsy and Type 1 Diabetes Blaaahhhh

     Sometimes Type 1 Diabetes gets in the way of Autism and Autism gets in the way of Type 1 Diabetes. Today, Epilepsy took center stage. I try to keep things in little buckets and only think about one thing at a time, but occasionally that does not work.
 
     Like today. Keira had a Neurologists appointment at 10:30 and Kailyn had a Diabetes Appointment at 11:30. Then, Keira has her ABA teacher come to the house every day at 12 noon.  I had to choose and Autism/Epilepsy won by default.  Kailyn has NEVER needed a referral to the Endocrinologist nor have we had to pay a copay, but apparently we now do. I learned this when I opened a bill from her last visit on Saturday. Maybe too many children with Type 1 Diabetes are going to the Doctor so they can get their medicine and supplies to LIVE.  So, they decided to crack down on that. I mean really, a documented Type 1 Diabetic NEEDS a referral to get info on how to live and prescriptions to keep her alive? SERIOUSLY?

     The Neurologist appointment was normal. We talked about her seizures, looked at a recent video I took and talked about medication to keep the seizure monsters out of her brain.  Then came the news that her genetic deletion has now been linked to Epilepsy. She is no longer considered a Child with Benign Epilepsy. Now, she is considered to have Early Onset Epilepsy. All because of this gene mutation. I have to admit, I am taking it hard. Benign means she would outgrow it. Early onset means it is with her for life. I can't find much info on it either, which is frustrating.

     However, I am trying to take it with a grain of salt knowing that the research on the deletion is in its early stages.  And frankly, Doctors DO NOT know everything. It is a science. If they knew everything they would be able to tell us what the heck was going on! In my opinion, she has a form of Developmental Delay/Epilepsy that does not have a name yet. We go to Children's Hospital Boston in April (I have had this appointment since December) for a second opinion from an Epileptimologist that specializes in child development. They are ranked #1 in the nation. She may say the same thing, she may not. But, at least we are doing all we can to help our child meet her fullest potential in life.