Some of APRIL VACA

Vacation for us was trying to get Kailyn through her Birthday party without being ill and then dealing with illness the rest of the time. At least one of my three children have been sick each day since April 7. That is fifteen days if you didn't feel like counting. Kailyn was throwing out low blood sugars and ketones for three day straight, Keira is not sleeping and seizures reared their ugly head again.  I am getting sick of it. No pun intended. But, thanks to the B-day party, Art Camp and Grammie and Grandpa being able to entertain the kids I think they had a pretty decent time. Sam did get out with friends once, but no friends or cousins over. It did not help that they think it is summer. This wacky weather makes them think we can go to the beach and actually swim in the water ;)  Ouch! Here are a few pictures of them learning to do their Ripsticks. Huge hit that they got for Christmas. Sam is so proud that it says for 8 years old and up and he can do it. :)  They started out going around the island in the kitchen and progressed to making it outside in Grammie and Grandpa's driveway. I am hopeful that summer vacation will be much better and I will be able to leave the house with them much more often.

 I LOVE the tongue!! He always does it when he is concentrating doing something physical. lol

I CAN DO IT!!

The only time Keira has gotten out is to the Doctors and to get the kids at camp. This is the only picture I have of her during the week. We did go outside, but not in public. What a nasty bug they got!! 

CAKE BOSS BIRTHDAY

You Can Be A Type 1 Diabetic and Enjoy

Decorating Cakes Too.

Kailyn's favorite show and one of her favorite hobbies among MANY other

 things is baking and decorating. Just to clear things up, yes, you can have sugar and be a Type 1 Diabetic. A Type I Diabetic needs to eat the same healthy lifestyle as a normal child and that includes treats once in a while. ;)

She wanted a cool party that incorporated the Cake Boss methods.

I helped plan (Thanks to Pinterest) and her Grammie made it happen.

I helped pick out material that was cool for the tween set, picked out the cake to be made, wrote their names on hates and aprons etc.. I was the planner.

Grammie sewed all of the tiers for the aprons. Made the cakes, learned how to do everything and then did it. Kailyn is lucky to have a Grammie like her.

SO, Kailyn had her dream birthday party and is now exhausted.

A ton of Type 1 Diabetes stuff (illness/large ketones/lows) went on this last week, but the party went on. (A whole other post I don't want to relive)

NOW she has memories to last a lifetime.

Here are some of the pictures:

KAILYN'S CAKE BOSS PARTY!

Vacation must have been WAY too fun.

Our kids are having a hard time getting back into the school routine. It was rough going, but we made it through the day. (I think, we still have 2.5 more hours of the day)

Highlights of the day.

Sam going to school. lol.

I am slowly getting more organized. All the piles in the kitchen are gone. An organized system of piles in bins. My trip to Ikea proved successful in the getting more organized front. I love that place!

Sam saying, "I don't say the S or L words." (Sexy or Love) I had just told Kailyn not to sing the song "I'm Sexy and I Know It". He tries to one up her when I correct her behavior by saying he does not do it. The song is on the TV all the time and I guess the kids at her school sing it. Sam heard it on the TV this am (the Today Show was on in the background while we were getting ready for school and the beginning of the song was played) He sang, "I'm the S word and I know it". LOL  I told him he can say love, but for some reason he thinks that he can't. He also does not think he can look at people kissing. He hates when people tease him about liking a girl even though he chases them at recess on the playground.

Keira stinking her tongue out at me. When you ask her where her mouth is she goes, "aah" and sticks out her tongue with a smile. She has an infectious giggle when you tickle her afterwards.

Kailyn asking me not to transport her after she falls asleep. I let her go to bed in ours so that she would fall asleep early. I could not understand what she meant? Did she not want me to press a Star Trek like button and transport her somewhere? Then my tired brain started to think harder. She meant transfer her back into her bed. Well, we will. lol

Keira officially starting her ABA in home program. They were doing baselines for almost a month. Now the real work starts. She anxiously awaits either Mark or Brendan at the door once the dog starts barking. She even cried the other day when Mark left.

Highlights of the week.

My kids going to art class for four days. They loved it and made a pretty cool masterpiece using melted crayons.

Playdates. Kailyn had a few and we had one with their cousins. They seemed to have a blast.

Kailyn whispering to me in Boston that she knew the secret of what LMFAO was.
Laugh my fat a$$ off or Laugh my freaking a$$ off.  I wonder how long she has pondered what those letters meant and if she really knows what the F is? lol  If she does, she is really good at hiding it.  If someone has told her it was not us and she has not heard it in our presence. I told her to keep it a secret and not to tell anyone else. lol   It is impossible to hide my children from pop culture. Kailyn takes hip hop classes and it is around them all the time. Especially her.

My nephew asking me if Sam, "Customizes his Beyblades". He turned four in December.

Watching Keira learn how to use the Ipad. She is really good at her shape sorting game. It really impresses her teachers. She can barely talk, but can push and move complicated pieces into their right places.

Finishing up our paperwork for the Autism study.

Going to the Boston Museum of Science as a family. My kids favorite exhibits were the dinosaurs and the human body section. They could not get over looking at the real brains.

Going to Ikea (This is much more fun without kids though ;) )

Kailyn getting her bunny. It's annoying sometimes, but she loves Holly to pieces.

Being healthy over a vacation. The last one was a bust. We literally NEVER left the house. It was nice to be able to do things over the vacation.

Pure Joy is getting a bunny!

You have wanted for 3 years.

She started in on me when I was pregnant.

She was 7. I told her 10 years old.

I never thought she would turn 10. (In a month and a half)

She was told she would be responsible for her rabbit entirely.

I am not a huge animal lover, but my kids are.

She earned all the money to get the supplies and the rabbit.

The nice rabbit man gave her one of the gentlest bunnies he had.(Did not make her pay)

(I have no idea what kind. Just that it will be as big as my Mom's

dog Daisy. 8 pounds)

The bunny will stay inside until it gets warmer and then will stay in

a hutch out in our garage next to the heated side of the wall. She is too

young to be outside yet.

So: Introducing

Holly

The newest member of our family.

And her Mom:Kailyn

 Apparently, they were worried she would get lonely so they fell asleep in the Playroom. Sam did not find his accommodations very comfortable for long and woke up to move to the couch. The new unfinished playroom chairs just did not cut it. I then whisked him upstairs into his own bed. I then went and dragged Kailyn up to her room. Holly is in the cage with the blue blanket over it and a little opening.

Here's to hoping they calm down about the rabbit before vacation is over. ;)

A Big Thank You to Grammie and Grandpa for helping her research and taking her shopping for the supplies: I think ;)

Good Moms have sticky floors. A little of everything.

Sam    

     I really LOVE how Sam says some things the wrong way or labels objects incorrectly. Yeah, I probably should always correct, but once he gets it in his head it is hard to retrain him. For instance, he keeps calling R2D2, Wall-E. He won't back down. He calls Kailyn, "Kaiyn" and his reading teacher, "The work lady". He has a hard time remembering names. So, I try, but figure at some point he will get it. Until then, I will sit back and quietly chuckle. Also, note to self: I can't do first grade homework. I tried to help him last night and we got a horrible grade!! Here is a picture of my cutie when he was two! He was such a monkey and always climbing. Just like Keira now.

Someone was talking to Keira about getting a haircut.

1. She had no idea what they are talking about.

2. Why in the heck would I get her a haircut? They acted all shocked she has never had her hair cut. Why would I?

She is totally posing in this photo ;)

Here is a picture of my Dad holding Keira right after she was born. I am putting it here so I can find it for her ABA people identification program. I actually really love it though. It's perfection in my opinion.

My philosophy in life has changed a bit in the last few years. I used to sweat the small stuff. Then I was stuck. I did not know where to go. I could not live the life that I expected. This picture sum's up how I felt. I find this picture amusing! I have found my way if you were wondering ;)

This is my new philosophy after Autism, Type 1 Diabetes, Epilepsy, G-tube feeding and a blood clotting disorder  (that resulted in two pulmonary embolism's) entered my life. Yup, my house is way messier than I ever expected, but I don't care. It's clean, just messy a ton.

And just so a pretty picture of Kailyn is not left out: At camp last summer almost 3 years after her Type 1 Diabetes diagnosis.

Autism, Epilepsy and Type 1 Diabetes Blaaahhhh

     Sometimes Type 1 Diabetes gets in the way of Autism and Autism gets in the way of Type 1 Diabetes. Today, Epilepsy took center stage. I try to keep things in little buckets and only think about one thing at a time, but occasionally that does not work.
 
     Like today. Keira had a Neurologists appointment at 10:30 and Kailyn had a Diabetes Appointment at 11:30. Then, Keira has her ABA teacher come to the house every day at 12 noon.  I had to choose and Autism/Epilepsy won by default.  Kailyn has NEVER needed a referral to the Endocrinologist nor have we had to pay a copay, but apparently we now do. I learned this when I opened a bill from her last visit on Saturday. Maybe too many children with Type 1 Diabetes are going to the Doctor so they can get their medicine and supplies to LIVE.  So, they decided to crack down on that. I mean really, a documented Type 1 Diabetic NEEDS a referral to get info on how to live and prescriptions to keep her alive? SERIOUSLY?

     The Neurologist appointment was normal. We talked about her seizures, looked at a recent video I took and talked about medication to keep the seizure monsters out of her brain.  Then came the news that her genetic deletion has now been linked to Epilepsy. She is no longer considered a Child with Benign Epilepsy. Now, she is considered to have Early Onset Epilepsy. All because of this gene mutation. I have to admit, I am taking it hard. Benign means she would outgrow it. Early onset means it is with her for life. I can't find much info on it either, which is frustrating.

     However, I am trying to take it with a grain of salt knowing that the research on the deletion is in its early stages.  And frankly, Doctors DO NOT know everything. It is a science. If they knew everything they would be able to tell us what the heck was going on! In my opinion, she has a form of Developmental Delay/Epilepsy that does not have a name yet. We go to Children's Hospital Boston in April (I have had this appointment since December) for a second opinion from an Epileptimologist that specializes in child development. They are ranked #1 in the nation. She may say the same thing, she may not. But, at least we are doing all we can to help our child meet her fullest potential in life.

Boston Trip: Children's Hospital Boston Research, Raincoat Cafe and Build a Bear.

We got up at 5am in hopes of leaving by 6am. We left at 6:10. We were going to Children's Hospital Boston to participate in a comprehensive study on Autism. Having two children on the spectrum and Keira with a special gene deletion associated with Autism made them especially interested in us. I swear the genetic researcher was bouncing up and down in her seat when I mentioned the deletion even though she already knew about it before we got there.

      A team of researchers from the Developmental Medicine Center greeted us on the 6th floor. Some Geneticists, a Psychologist, a Neurologist and a bunch of Post Docs were there to greet us. I think there were around eight of them. We checked in and they whisked us off to sign consent forms. After we got through all the paperwork we were all brought to separate rooms to be tested and interviewed for 3.5 hours. Everyone was fine with this part except Sam. At this point, I think he wished he had gone to school instead.  :) We got through the morning and then went down to the seriously busy cafeteria with vouchers in hand and a wide array of things to select from. One of Kailyn's favorite things about Hospitals is cafeterias. This one did not disappoint.

     Afterwards, we went back upstairs and they did a few more things with the kids while I was interviewed for another 3 hours. While I finished up interviewing, they took every one's blood except for Sam. We were waiting to do him last and did not tell him until the last minute because he would freak out. He did. He did not want what he called "a point" put in him even though they gave them numbing cream. We had to pin him down, but once he figured out it did not hurt he relaxed and watched the TV until his three vials were drawn. It was funny listening to them in the car talk about the blood draw. Kailyn swore that she had 5 vials taken and Sam said he had 4. Everyone in the family had three. I talked about both Sam and Keira for 6 hours yesterday. My face was bright red by the end of the day and my brain was fried. I still have a ton of homework to do that they sent home with me and more interviewing to do over the phone. They usually do the research in two trips, but since we were coming from so far we did it in one.

 This is them playing and being entertained while we waited for blood draws and for me to finish up interviewing.

 The Musical Stairs were a huge hit on our way out. We have been here a couple times and I never noticed this before.

Then off to Burlington and the Rainforest Cafe for a reward. (Or Raincoat Cafe as Kailyn enthusiastically shouted out to the researchers when we first got there) They were very good research participants. It was a long day of cognitive tests etc...and they did wonderful. Even Sam, who I hope won't be completely scarred for life about hospitals.

 In front of the fish tanks and rain.

 Sam and Keira both touching the rain. They inspected every inch of the restaurant and we survived two thunderstorms while we were there. There was a ginormous gorilla right next to our table. I thought it would freak Keira out, but no. Sam was the one that was scared and had to be convinced that it was not real. Kailyn wanted to get up and touch all of the animals.

 Type 1 Diabetes nightmare.

 Volcano cake for dessert. HUGE and thrilling for the kids. Never have had anything like it. Although, it could easily be recreated for a birthday party. ;) Keira loved playing with the top of it.

Then we went to the Lego Store and Build A Bear to get the rest of their rewards. All of them got bears. This was Keira's first bear and I named her Dreamy. She can't name things herself at this point. So, I named her this. I have big dreams and aspirations for Keira.

 The Bear Helper really made them work to put their hearts into their bears.Then, we finally left the mall. We basically closed it at 9pm. We headed home and they passed out on the way. First, Keira about 15 minutes after we got on the highway with Dreamy.

 Then Kailyn with Diabetes Bear and Candy.

 And finally Sam at 10pm, who usually goes to bed around 7:30, with Beary and Armyman Bear.

New and old Bears to cuddle with.

Keira woke up early, but Sam and Kailyn are still fast asleep. I will bring them to school when they wake up.(If they ever do) 

     Hopefully, we were helpful and will continue to be helpful in research for years to come. They will store our blood/DNA for years too and study it as needed. Our names are not on it. Just a number. However, if something major should ever come up they will track our names down and let us know. This also will help save us money on testing they wanted to do on Keira as well.